STEWARDSHIP FOR TODAY’S WOMAN – THE CAREER WOMAN

            I want to share something from a book that was just recently given to me. The title is Stewardship for Today’s Woman written by Helen Kingsbury-Wallace. For context of the book, I want to note that it was written in 1960.

            The background to the book is given in the introduction to the book. It states “every generation of churchwomen has to learn for itself the meaning of stewardship. The principles of stewardship have not changed since New Testament days, but the conditions of life and the status and position of women have changed greatly and are still changing.”[1]

            The book states that stewardship shouldn’t just be thought of in terms of giving money, “but it must come to be thought of in terms of the dedication of life.” The book is divided into different chapters based on different “walks” or “stages of life”. The chapters are

            The Career Woman

            The Wife

            The Mother

            The Widow

            The Retired Woman

            The Churchwoman

 

            The book starts with a discussion of the career woman. It talks about a woman who works in a travel agency, takes a bus to and from work, lives alone spends Saturdays running errands and cleaning her apartment, and Sundays sleeping late, reading the newspaper. It talks of a career woman as a lonely woman; with no real relationships. But she reads about and then sponsors a young girl in another country, sending clothing, letters and other items. She finds that she feels a connection to the girl. Then other women in her office hear about her sponsorship and start including her in conversations. She shares her story of sponsorship in a foreign country and friends book trips through the travel agency she works at. Her employer rewards her with a small raise.

            Of course, this story takes an entire chapter, but what I liked was the concept, not of a working “girl” of the 1950s/1960s, but that when she found relationship with others, her life became fuller.

            I think it’s like that for us. When we have relationships with others: friends, family, co-workers, churches, neighbors, then our lives, and we ourselves, change. Being good stewards, practicing good stewardship requires relationships.  “A stewardship-shaped life is never built on tasks alone. It grows in the quiet, ordinary moments when we choose to see people the way God sees them: as entrusted souls, not interruptions; divine assignments, not items on a list. Relational stewardship is the posture of a believer who understands that God has placed people in our path not for efficiency, but for love. It is the shift from doing to becoming, from managing responsibilities to managing trust, from completing duties to reflecting the heart of the Owner.”[2]

I will continue my review of this book in next month’s blog.

           

Please feel free to contact me at (315) 427-3668 or susanranous@unyumc.org if you found this interesting.

 

 

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[1] Stewardship for Today’s Woman – by Helen Kingsbury-Wallace, Page 7

[2] Intentional Stewardship: How and Why We Build Biblical Relationships - By: Randy DeVaul (Biblical Christian Worldview)

                                                            CLERGY TAX

            Now that 2025 has ended, you have probably received a W-2 form, reporting your taxable wages, any housing allowances and exclusions, and any federal or state income taxes that you had withheld, as well as other tax forms and documents. What has been reported will be used to prepare your income tax returns. There’s really no chance to make any real changes that will help you at this point.

            Even if you are planning to wait until much closer to the “regular” tax due date of April 15^th, or even later in the year if you filed an extension, you should take some time with your tax preparer to see where things stand for you. Have you paid in enough taxes? Do you have copies of all of your unreimbursed business expenses and mileage? Do you have every tax document you should have? Have you calculated your actual housing costs? This will let you prepare in advance.

            But you should also work with your tax professional to do a projection for 2026, and see what you can do to minimize any payments you have to make.

·         Should you have federal and state income taxes withheld from your paychecks?

·         Should you pay quarterly estimated taxes?

·         Have you claimed enough as housing allowance/housing exclusions?

·         Have you calculated your actual housing costs?

·         What is the amount of self-employment tax you’ll have to pay, and how can you spread out the payment of those taxes?

·         Are you tracking your business expenses, submitting them to the church for reimbursement, and providing unreimbursed amounts to your tax preparer?

·         Are you tracking your “business” mileage?

            All of these questions are important to consider and answer and work on now so you can prepare yourself for the filing of your 2025 taxes and while you can make changes and decisions that will help you for 2026!

 

           

Please feel free to contact me at (315) 427-3668 or susanranous@unyumc.org if you’d like help with projecting tax consequences based on your income, deductions, etc.!

 

                                             AM I A STEWARD?

            As many (or some) of you may know, I am the Christian Stewardship Specialist at the Upper New York Conference of the United Methodist Church. What does that mean?

            I thought I’d start by defining what a steward is. Merriam Webster says that a steward is “one employed in a large household or estate to manage domestic concerns (such as the supervision of servants, collection of rents, and keeping of accounts); a shop steward; a fiscal agent; an employee on a ship, airplane, bus, or train who manages the provisioning of food and attends passengers; one appointed to supervise the provision and distribution of food and drink in an institution; one who actively directs affairs : manager.”

            To steward is “to act as a steward for: manage; or to perform the duties of a steward.”

            So I think what this means, in its simplest form, is that we are stewards of and for God. That means that because “God created” (Genesis 1:1), we are tasked with caring for and managing those items that are of God for God.

            So, taking those definitions and that understanding, what is a Christian Stewardship Specialist? I think that means that I am tasked with interpreting, teaching and learning about Christian stewardship, and guiding others in the Conference and in the connection in that understanding. I create and lead workshops, writing blogs and articles, and teach classes. I am working on a booklet on ministry shares and have created a curriculum for training stewardship coaches around the conference.

            This is work that I enjoy, and a calling that I must answer to and follow?

            So, are you a steward too?

 

 

 

Feel free to contact me at sranousacctg@twcny.rr.com or susanranous@unyumc.org with any thoughts or questions.

 

 

                                      IT’S A NEW YEAR!

           

            The last time I wrote, we were in December, celebrating Advent and looking forward to Christmas and I gave you a to-do list to consider as you neared the end of the year; things like housing resolutions, year-end giving, copyright licenses, cancellation plans, winter hazards and payroll classifications for employees.

            We are now fully into the new year. Resolutions are something a lot of us do at the beginning of the year. What are we going to commit to? Weight loss? Exercise?

            Did you consider what you might commit to in the new year? Here’s a thought? Maybe don’t call it a resolution. Many resolutions are forgotten early in the year. I don’t know if not calling something a resolution will make a difference, but what if we called it a covenant?

            What’s the difference between a resolution and a covenant?

                        Resolution: a firm decision to do or not to do something:

                        Covenant: promise by a covenant or a pledge

            Many of us in the United Methodist Church start the beginning of a new year with the Wesley Covenant Prayer:

            I am no longer my own, but thine.

            Put me to what thou wilt, rank me with whom thou wilt.

            Put me to doing, put me to suffering.       

            Let me be employed by thee or laid aside for thee,

            exalted for thee or brought low for thee.

            Let me be full, let me be empty.

            Let me have all things, let me have nothing.

            I freely and heartily yield all things

            to thy pleasure and disposal.

            And now, O glorious and blessed God,

            Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,

            thou art mine, and I am thine. So be it.

            And the covenant which I have made on earth,

            let it be ratified in heaven. Amen.

 

            So what if we started the new year considering what we would like to covenant to? I’m thinking, instead of considering how to lose weight, how about we consider what God is asking of us and how we could answer that ask?

 

 

            As a big “list maker”, I took some time at the beginning of the year to write down “topics” that I wanted to covenant to learning more about. I bought (or located in my library) a book for every topic, and I’ve committed to learning more about the eight topics I wrote down. FYI: one of the topics was choosing a book for “fun”. I think God wants me to lighten up a little too!

 

            So what do you think? What are the topics that will help you hear God?

 

 

Feel free to contact me at sranousacctg@twcny.rr.com or susanranous@unyumc.org with any thoughts or questions.